Empower Your Journey to Wholeness
Cheryl Weaver Coaching
Discover transformative coaching that aligns with your spiritual path, guiding you towards healing and personal growth.
Meet Cheryl Weaver
Cheryl Weaver believes in the profound power of faith-based coaching to mend broken spirits and foster personal development. Her approach is rooted in compassion, understanding, and a deep commitment to helping individuals find peace and purpose. By integrating spiritual insights with practical strategies, Cheryl empowers her clients to overcome challenges and embrace a fulfilling life.
Root to Restore: Nine-Week Assessment Categories
Week 1 — Foundation, Safety, and Readiness
Establishing a safe foundation for healing and determining the participant’s readiness.
- Relationship with Jesus Christ
- Openness to God and the healing process
- Current spiritual condition
- Primary reason for seeking healing
- Current emotional and physical well-being
- Existing medical, psychiatric, or clinical care
- Current medications and professional support
- Crisis, safety, and stability concerns
- Personal goals for the nine-week program
- Support system and ability to participate safely
Week 2 — Identifying the Root
Discovering where present struggles, behaviors, and recurring patterns began.
- Childhood experiences
- Relationship with mother and father
- Adoption, abandonment, or rejection
- Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, or spiritual abuse
- Neglect and unmet emotional needs
- Family environment and formative experiences
- Significant losses, betrayals, and traumatic events
- Repeating emotional reactions
- Addictions and destructive habits
- Presenting symptoms and recurring life patterns
- Core beliefs formed through painful experiences
- The original wound beneath the current struggle
Week 3 — Judgments and the Law of Sowing and Reaping
Identifying negative conclusions made about others, oneself, God, and life.
- Judgments against parents
- Judgments against former or current spouses
- Judgments against authority figures
- Judgments against spiritual leaders
- Judgments against men, women, family, or the Church
- Self-judgments
- Judgments about God
- Critical attitudes
- Bitterness and resentment
- Pride, self-righteousness, and comparison
- Repeated patterns connected to judgments
- Recognizing and breaking destructive harvests
Week 4 — Inner Vows, Agreements, and Destructive Beliefs
Exposing decisions and agreements made in response to pain.
- Inner vows beginning with statements such as “I will never…”
- Oaths, promises, and pledges
- Agreements with rejection, fear, shame, or failure
- Lies believed about personal identity
- Negative words and labels received from others
- Curses spoken by parents, teachers, leaders, or peers
- Self-imposed curses
- Ungodly expectations
- Rebellion and resistance to authority
- Control, self-protection, and emotional walls
- People-pleasing and perfectionism
- Renouncing vows, lies, and ungodly agreements
Week 5 — Soul Ties, Relationships, and Sexual Brokenness
Addressing unhealthy relational bonds and wounds involving intimacy.
- Significant past and present relationships
- Unforgiveness toward people who caused harm
- Emotional dependency and codependency
- Unhealthy loyalty or attachment
- Manipulation, control, and relational bondage
- Sexual relationships outside marriage
- Adultery and fornication
- Pornography, fantasy, and lust
- Sexual abuse, molestation, rape, or incest
- Abortion-related wounds
- Shame connected to sexuality or the body
- Emotional and sexual soul ties
- Breaking unhealthy relational bonds
- Restoring purity, dignity, and healthy boundaries
Week 6 — Occult Involvement and Counterfeit Spirituality
Identifying spiritual practices and involvements that conflict with biblical faith.
- Family religious and spiritual background
- Witchcraft, sorcery, and magic
- Divination and fortune-telling
- Astrology, horoscopes, psychics, and tarot
- Séances, mediums, and attempts to contact the dead
- Ouija boards and occult games
- Blood pacts and spiritual agreements
- Freemasonry, Eastern Star, and related organizations
- New Age practices
- False religions, cults, and counterfeit spirituality
- Ungodly meditation or spiritual rituals
- Occult entertainment and media
- Spiritual visitations, voices, nightmares, or oppression
- Renouncing occult involvement and spiritual agreements
Week 7 — Generational Patterns and Family Iniquity
Recognizing destructive patterns that have repeated through the family line.
- National, cultural, and family heritage
- Religious history of both sides of the family
- Known ancestral sins
- Generational addictions
- Patterns of abuse or sexual brokenness
- Divorce and family breakdown
- Poverty, financial ruin, or chronic lack
- Repeated illness or premature death
- Miscarriage, infertility, or reproductive difficulties
- Violence, murder, suicide, or repeated tragedy
- Mental or emotional breakdown
- Hatred, racism, bitterness, or family feuds
- Abandonment and rejection patterns
- Generational curses and spoken words
- Separating personal responsibility from ancestral patterns
- Renouncing inherited agreements and destructive cycles
Week 8 — Forgiveness, Release, and Blessing
Releasing offenses and replacing curses and wounds with God’s blessing.
- People who caused harm or disappointment
- Specific offenses and resulting emotions
- Forgiving parents, family members, spouses, leaders, and others
- Forgiving oneself
- Receiving God’s forgiveness
- Releasing anger, bitterness, vengeance, and grudges
- Grieving what was lost or never received
- Breaking the power of spoken curses
- Receiving unconditional love and affirmation
- Parental blessing or the absence of blessing
- Communicating blessing to children and others
- Meaningful touch
- Spoken affirmation
- Attaching value
- Picturing a hopeful future
- Active commitment to blessing
- Moving from curses to blessings
Week 9 — Restored Identity, Original Intent, and Commission
Establishing the participant in her restored identity and preparing her to move forward.
- Identity in Christ
- Separating identity from trauma, sin, labels, and past experiences
- Replacing lies with biblical truth
- Receiving God’s love, acceptance, and belonging
- Recognizing gifts, strengths, and calling
- Restoring personal voice and healthy authority
- Establishing godly boundaries
- Developing healthy spiritual practices
- Creating a plan to maintain freedom
- Recognizing future warning signs and triggers
- Identifying continued support and appropriate referrals
- Articulating God’s Original Intent
- Writing a personal declaration of freedom
- Blessing, commissioning, and next steps
The Healing Model—Confess, Assure Forgiveness, Break Bondages, Cast Away, Destroy Images, and Extend God’s Healing—can be applied within Weeks 2–8 as each area is addressed. Week 9 should focus primarily on restoration, blessing, identity, and maintaining freedom rather than continuing to search for additional problems.
